Just when you think that your life is figured out.  That fate has been decided....you are thrown a curve ball that you just cannot imagine.

Life is should be a positive experience in my opinion.  Do not dwell on the negative and definitely keep the drama to a minimum.  My health requires nothing less and I try not to do stress anymore.

If someone comes into your life and has a positive impact on you.  Just be glad and thankful that it happened.  If the special someone needs to leave your life for whatever reason just be grateful that you had the opportunity to have them if even just for a few minutes.

Nothing is more important than learning to have empathy for others.  Remember you do not know their story so do not judge someone.  Falling in love is easy but learning to love is a very hard thing to do.  Never let a day go by where you do not tell those in your life that you love them.  You never know when they will be taken from you.  So live your life like it is the last day on this earth.  Walk away from the negative and just focus on the positive.